Bra-blems solved!

Hello ladies and hope everyone is having a good rest beacuse of the long weekend. Today's post is very intimate, and Im sure most of you can relate to. I remember realizing that I've been wearing the wrong bra size since Miranda's scene on the famous HBO show Sex and the City.  (Scene uploaded by gejowka: link here)  Right after that, I did consult a salesperson and read a bit more about correct bra fittings. Indeed getting the right bra style,size and cup  felt more comfortable and I felt more free.

Below are some Bra-blems I'm sure you've experience, plus throwing in also some suggestions  on how to resolve them.

1. Slipping Straps - very annoying and not sexy (unless your inside the bedroom with the hubby) ... to avoid SS, make sure your bra is put on correctly, pull it   down at the back so its under your shoulder blades and even with the front. If your bra is too high on the back,  it might be causing the strap to fall off your shoulders. 

2. Back Band riding up - if this is happening to you, clearly you are wearing the wrong bra size. Get a correct fit, the one that will be snug and create a straight line across the back. If bra is too loose it will surely ride up, and front side will sag. It might also be a sign that your bra is old, and has stretch out, therefore it needs replacement.

3. Straps digging in - bra straps should'nt cause pain, it should not also be the one holding up your breast, it should be lifted by the band underneath and not lifted by the straps. Again it might help to consult a salesperson to get the correct bra size and kind. Feeling awkward having to measure it for you, check out Thirdlove app to get your correct bra size, all you need is five minutes, supportive bra, tank top and a wall mounted mirror. 

Below's a guide from Thirdlove for other bra problems and their solutions so won't never have to worry about these Brablems.

I hope sharing this helps ladies! When you decide to get a couple of new ones, please check out Thirdlove; they make really comfortable and cute bras! They have a wide collection called 24/7 which has that luxe feel and functionality. To get a 15% off  when you order, use the code: BRABLEMS"

Enjoy your labor day holiday Ladies!

xoxo,
Clyde

Beauty Find - Facial Oils

Hello loves, I hope everybody is having a great week start.  On the weekend I finally got hold of this precious oil – The Body Shop, Oils of Life, Intensely RevitalisingFacial Oil. Yes, like you, there was a push and pull inside me about adding this to my beauty regimen.  Why should I be putting oil on my face when I struggle to remove it all day?!  Fact: Essential oils are from botanicals, which are usually packed with antioxidants, oils can be absorbed quickly, lock in moisture, and helps prevent fine lines and even ward off breakouts. So far so good right? So when I was finally convinced that these oils don’t equal oil, I finally got one. Want to try them too, but don’t know how to choose? Here’s a quick guide:

Dry Skin – plant oils from argan, almond sunflower, rose, raspberry, primrose and avocado. These types of oil sink into your skin instantly, locks moisture leaving a smooth and radiant skin.

Normal Skin- grape seed oil and jojoba oil are antioxidants that fight off damage caused by ultraviolet light. Argan oil  contains healing and anti-aging properties to keep skin balanced.

Oily Skin - there’s an oil that actually kills bacteria and fight breakouts – tea tree oil. Over cleansing and using harsh oil control or blemish treatment strip the skin of oil making it produce more to compensate.

Aging – seaberry oil has restorative properties. Primrose, macadamia, marula, rosehip are also good for matured skin.

Started using on the weekend, face feels smoother
already. 

Facial oil can be used day or night, and these oils have an amazing scent that is calming and help to lift your mood. There are many facial oils out there, surely overwhelming for a first timer, but be sure to try before you buy, like I did. There are shops offering free samples, so better try first before purchasing a full bottle. It might help if you could ask your dermatologist if your skin is sensitive or you have allergies.

xoxo,

Clyde

TBS gave free samples for the Oils of life
range

Khiels Midnight Recovery Concentrate was also
 given for free. It's amazing, love the smell.

L'oreal Extraordinary Facial Oil,
budget friendly for on $24 online

Josie Mara is available at Sephora,
and has been raved by many.

Most recommended for matured skin -
Fresh Seaberry Moisturizing Facial Oil

Flowers of the World & My Pleated WOW outfit (white-on-white)

It’s nice to be out and enjoy the weekend especially if the agenda requires viewing beautiful flowers from all over the world. For this day filled with gorgeousness and daintiness, I have chosen to wear a white-on-white outfit or WOW to let the flower stand out when taking pictures. My WOW outfit ensembles are a pleated white skirt and a sleeveless crop top, with an inverted V cut at the front's bottom. Pleated skirts are coming back and spring is the right time to wear them, especially if you get them in pastel colours and lighter shades, you’ll be summer and beach date ready in no time. Pleats are romantic and fanciful, just like most of the flowers I’ve seen today, and just because pleats are also whimsical already, no need for too much accessories, makeup kept to a minimal too, using nude hues.

A beautiful weekday start ladies!

xoxo,

Clyde

Top and skirt are from VGY (vaingloriousyou)

Bag: Burberry

Sandals: Charles and Keith

Traditional (Bullet) Vs. Liquid Lipstick

Wohoo! We survived another week, cheers to the weekend. It’s time to put on that bright red or pink lipstick for a weekend night out with a special someone or with the girls. Ladies what’s your lipstick preference? Lately I’ve been gravitating towards the liquid matte lipstick which I think is becoming very popular nowadays. I like how it’s easy to apply, the staying power, plus the finish it gives. What’s really the difference between a traditional and liquid? Let me break it down for you and tell me what your verdict is:

Traditional Lipstick or Bullet

Traditional, Bullet or the Twist Up Lipsticks have a wide range of finishes – satin & sheer, creamy, frosted, glossy or matte. Many of us like them because of its texture, feel and wider color selections.  Also we can twist all day, it’s quick and easier to apply, can be applied even in a moving vehicle – without mirror for some! Having control over the sheerness in each application by applying fewer or more swipes.  Downside: less staying power, if mistreated in heat or bumping, lipstick could melt or break.

Traditional (Bullet) Lipstick Finish
Photo Credit: britishbeautyaddict

Liquid Lipstick

Liquid lipsticks comes in wide range too, glossy, creamy and the one I’m loving right now, the mattes! They are ultra-pigmented, offers instant color in a single swipe, applied like a lip-gloss with a wand applicator. If you find the right brand liquid ones are very long lasting and feel weightless once it’s set. While application its glides on your lips like a gel, resulting to a gorgeous, vibrant and fuller looking lips.  Downside: Application can get inaccurate better have steady hands, some brands are very drying to lips so we need lots of prep before applying, and higher price point. Some liquid formulas don’t set making it transferable to your hair, clothes or teeth easily.

Kylie Jenner loves liquid mattes she even created her own line, Kylie Lip Kit - but a very pricey,
you can get others for a very affordable price

Love to know favorite lipstick formula.  Smile, drink and kiss with confidence ladies, happy weekend!

xoxo,

Clyde

Left: Wearing Nyx shade in Istanbul
Right: Wearing Colourpop in Tulle

Weekend Reminder: Housemate Rules to peacefully Co-exist

Hooray to Friday, it’s been awhile Ladies. I know this space is about sharing fab finds, sweet deals, and making everything else pretty, but today I am inserting Ladylike Laws to peacefully co-exist with your roommates/housemates. 

Sometimes having to live with an unfamiliar person can be very very tricky, and (ha ha) annoying, but Ladies that shouldn’t be the case. Dressing and looking good isn’t the only recipe to be fully truly beautiful but having that feeling of peace and calmness in your own house, makes a better you. Here are my 5 pointers to help you maintain the Zen in your home.

The Décor – kitchen, living, dining and laundry areas are shared, your style might not be their style. Be considerate to consult before adding anything or making a drastic change.  These shared spaces design should be mutually agreed upon.

The Kitchen- Do your own dishes, that’s the most important. If the utensils and cookware are both for everybody’s use be attentive enough to make sure that it is clean, and no food residue will remain on them ( I personally have horror stories about this, Yikes!).  This creates the most resentment if one has to constantly clean and wash the dishes, follow the Last Touch Rule! The one who uses last should always be responsible to wash it.

The Food – if you want to share food, I think it’s also ok to split the cost evenly. Oversharing sometimes can lead to a misconception that your food is free. Let them know and ask politely, we don’t want money matters to be the cause of an argument. And oh remember people are happy to share but eating their treats … ask permission.

The Guest – always give your housemates a heads up if you have family, relatives and friends who are coming over. More importantly talk and discuss if the stay is for an extended period of time, not cool if you overlook this, the golden rule: be considerate.

Your Behaviour – admit that many of us girls are passive aggressive – to translate tendency to be bitchy. I have read and reposted this – To be a Lady, never let another’s rudeness, diminish your good manners.  Sort out the facts and calmly talk to your housemates to figure out a solution. Some people aren't confrontational but if we don't try this and just let the bitchiness go on, no peace will be achieved.  Keeping your composure while being thrown into a difficult situation is a lifelong skill that is essential.

They say its hard to find "the one", I agree I also have my fair share of my horror flatmate stories, but as you experience these unpleasant things you also get to learn something which can lead to you being the best roomie one can ask for.

Shout out to my flatmates, Carla and Faye who manages to still keep the zen in our now called home.  Enjoy the weekend loves, only pillow fights are allowed. 

 xoxo,

Clyde

Love your face - try some facemask!

Maybe lots of you are not really a big fan of facemask, but believe me, if you are  one that doesnt have the time and extra bucks to go to a spa, you definetly should be trying this, its Korea's  No. 1 Hydrogel Mask Brand and its finally available now in Singapore. Faith in Face is a hydrogel mask that contains a high percentage of water soluble ingredients to deliver maximal hydration and superior rejuvenation.  It also have a gentle formula so its suitable for all, it cools the skin, thanks to  beta-glucans which also rejuvenates stressed out skin. If you love watching all those Korean series,for sure you will begin to wonder how to achieve a more luscious looking skin - try some Faith in Face Facemask.

Available in  five variants:

1. After shower look hydrogel mask- intense hydration and moisture retention capabilities

2. Black and white film star - anti- ageing effect that improves and lightens skin tone

3. Nourish Me- provides the ultimate nourishment - to protect, maintain and strengthen your  skin to prevent damage

4. Invisible Pore - effectively minimize pores 

5. Hold me tight - restores moisture level to restore elasticity and bounce

  Exclusively available at Watsons
 for $14.50 for box of 3 sheets

The mask is split into two: bottom and  top part of the face. Its not a regular microfiber nor cotton sheet, its a Hydrogel mask so its flimsy, it holds more serum compared to other face mask. To apply, place the mask onto your face using the smooth side and then peel off the other plastic sheet. Allow 10 - 20 minutes before taking it off.  I suggest putting it in your fridge before using, it makes it more colder, I believe it becomes more effective too.

To find out more, visit their website @ www.facebook.com/FaithinFaceSG - dont forget to like! 

Happy pampering ladies and enjoy the rest of the week.

xoxo,

Clyde

My roomie and I tried it, good way to bond and relax
during the weekend - verdict? we plan to get one again on the weekend!

Product Spotlight: Esemtan Wash Lotion & Skin Balm

So ok, it’s a hand wash and lotion.  You put it on your sink and use it.  The lovely thing about these though is that it is universally usable - for the whole body, face and hair (yes hair!), for all skin types.  It is also pH neutral, soap free, suitable for sensitive and stressed skin.  I personally like to call it my all- in-one wash in my bathroom sink. It features a balanced combination of fragrance and a gentle lather, this soap less wash is effective in removing dirt and oil from skin.  Esemtan wash lotion offers a complete washing experience that is universally usable from head to toe. Other benefits are:

• Gentle wash even in cases of dry or hypersensitivity to soap
• Mild fragrance
• Protects the skin against irritation and supports the skin’s natural moisture
•  Universally usable on Hair, Face and Body
• For all skin types, including babies and elderly

After washing might as well apply some lotion, because our skin absorbs faster after washing. Esemtan also have their Skin Balm which is good for the skin,with its mildly fragrant and rapidly absorbed moisturizing cream for hand and body care. Truly a one stop solution to user from normal, to dry & sensitive skin. 

Hand washing: Approx. 2-3ml Esemtan wash lotion to one palm,
froth it by adding some water. Wash thoroughly, rinse & dry.
Wash Lotion Retail Price: $19.75/500ml, $35.30/1L
Skin Balm Retail Price: $20/500ml

For all you ladies who have sensitive skin and are bored of your fragrance free soap – this is your perfect go to product! Esemtan Wash Lotion and Skin Balm comes with mild fragrance that helps to bring smile to your daily wash and moisturizing routine. Recommended to use daily, morning and evening after each wash.

Both products available at Guardian, Unity, Watsons, Independent pharmacy (Pink beauty, Beauty essential), NHG

Stay happy and refreshed ladies, enjoy the weekend!

xoxo,

Clyde

Tea Buddy: Unique and cute tea infusers

Thank God it’s Friday, typically if it’s the weekend we share some unforgettable and favourite finds on forums and apps. Today I’m going to reveal Instagram worthy tea infusers that I found.  A week before I started my three weeks tea detox, I went on a mall and cyber hunting shopping to get myself a tea infuser. The detox tea which I used was a loose leaf one so I really need something to use to help me achieve flatter tummy in 3 weeks! Among the ones I saw, here are my favourites:

Ouch! but he is cute, $25 at Takashimaya Dept Store

Mr. Tea from gvdeal $5

Heart Shape Infuser, $8 online via dolphinz

Tea Sub, $10

Umbrella, $9

Duckie, $10

For cat lovers!

Pug in Mug

Swinging girl tea infuser

This one is healthy!

Ikea, 2 for $3

Strong brew tea infuser

Lemon Tea Infuser, $3.90 from gingerbud, there is one in
strawberry shape too!

Tea shirt

Too bad I can’t get all of them, but just in case you know somebody who is a tea lover, I suggest you might want to get one of these for them, especially now that the Holidays are near!

Happy Friday loves!

xoxo,

Clyde